The Lime Green Shirt

Dear Tony,

I have been reading your blog for a while now. I do not read as much (I have a full-time job and I am a  full-time mom) but I try to read what you write on Facebook.

I have a question to ask or if you could direct me to a post you wrote. My husband lost a lot of weight a few years ago, but he has recently gained some back. I know that it bothers him although he does not talk about it. I love him with all of my heart, so I do worry…mostly I want him to be happy because he has a lot to offer the world.

How do you help a loved one who has gained weight and maybe get them back on track? What should I say or do?



Dear Are,

I avoid this subject because I do not know if there is truly anything you can say. I think in the past for me, saying something might put me in a darker place. I have not written about this subject before. But let me ask you because I am curious about your husband. Was his weight gain recent? Tel… Read More